Experienced mature wants to date a man

I'm not the type to just jump on top of someone; it has to be discreet and respectful. First, grab a bite to eat somewhere, and then enjoy each other's company between the sheets. P.S. My husband absolutely mustn't get wind of this.

Hi sweetheart, I hope I'm looking for you. That you have a lot of imagination and use it in the bedroom. My sex life is getting pretty boring, but I'm feeling a bit uninspired. Do you know any fun and hot things you could do with me?

I think it would be amazing to go shopping for sexy lingerie and exciting sex toys with a gorgeous, naughty man! Then, of course, I'll try everything out at home; that makes it even more exciting!

Just something different, that's all I ask. Not the usual stuff, but different!