Experienced mature wants to date a man

If you want to get to know me, you will first have to look me very sweetly in the eyes.

I don't mind a little excitement. I've had plenty of boyfriends, but none want to hurt me, so they don't accommodate my desires. They just can't seem to grasp that I enjoy the pain and that it actually makes me hot. What man wants to come and hurt me a little?

I don't want a real relationship because I already have a guy at home. I'm just looking for a nice side hustle. It might sound like I'm using you, and I am, haha. But what man doesn't want to be used?

I'm a pretty spirited woman who often finds myself home alone. I'd like to meet a man who will offer me company in the evenings and who I'll have a wonderful time with when he comes over.