Experienced mature wants to date a man

My boyfriend doesn't know I've seen him. My girlfriend doesn't either! She doesn't know either, but I'll tell her. I'm going to get revenge on my boyfriend first. I'm going to have sex with someone else as soon as possible! And then I'll let him "accidentally" find out. Can I use you for my plan?

I'm bi and have been married to a wonderful woman for two years. She's a lesbian and therefore doesn't want to have sex with a man, but I do. So we agreed that I could look for a fuck buddy. I'm not looking for someone to build a relationship with, desperate men looking for a quick threesome, or women. I prefer a taken man, so neither of us has a desire for anything more.

My friends convinced me to sign up here. Not that I'm desperate, but I'd really love to meet a nice man. I'm open to anything, but primarily friendship and some affection.

I'm making the most of life. You only do it once, and it's over before you know it. So if I meet a nice guy, I'm going to do fun things with him. So if I meet you again and I like you, and you like me, we're going to do fun things. Okay?