Experienced mother wants a guy

I really enjoy a lot of self-bondage, but it's more exciting when a man wants to tie me up and abuse me. I know the ropes, both literally and figuratively.

My boyfriend has lots of girlfriends he goes out with, and he doesn't think it's necessary for me to join him. I feel pretty bad about that. So why not find a friend who would go out with me?

We're still living together, but I don't think we'll be around for much longer. I'm driving him crazy with the boredom in bed; he just has so little imagination, even though I've already asked him for some variety. Are there any men who can do anything other than be straightforward? I'm truly desperate!

I'm looking for a nice, fun, and humorous man. It starts with friendship, and who knows where it will lead us.