Young mom wants sexdating

I'm turned off by smokers/bad breath/morning moods/smelly feet/beards/beer bellies...

I'm in an open relationship and would like to experiment with BDSM, either with or without my husband. I don't have much experience yet, but there's plenty to learn, and I'm very curious about what's out there. There are few boundaries or taboos. Multiple men are definitely possible.

I have so many fantasies I don't know where to begin. I'd really love to act out some of them with my boyfriend, but he's not into it. He's more into straightforward sex.

My boyfriend is going on vacation without me, with his friends. I think he'll be having a blast, even though he says he won't. But I'll do that too. And even if he doesn't, at least I'll have had a good time!