Young mother wants a guy

I'm not yet familiar with the world of S&M; and I'd like to be taught everything here. A gag seems very exciting to me. Needles too, by the way, and nursing roleplay excites me just by the thought.

So here I am, I've taken the plunge and I'm quite happy with it now. What I'm looking for is a man who's not opposed to safe sex. Most men want to go without, but personally, I find that quite scary. If we know each other longer and trust each other, it's always possible.

Nude sunbathing is really my thing, because I really don't like those tan lines at all. Would you like to join me?

It's about time I settled down. Apparently, I'm missing out on men around here, so I'm looking this way. Who knows, I might find the man of my dreams here. Background doesn't matter to me; preferably a bit older than me, 30+ would be nice, but not necessary as long as you have a little life experience and don't act like a little child. This might sound strange for me to say, but I've been through quite a bit, so I'm being clear about what I'm looking for.