Experienced mom wants a sexdate

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I secretly read a few messages on his phone, and they contained things you wouldn't discuss with a colleague or friend. They mentioned hotel names, dates, and times, and then ended with three crosses. I never would have guessed it from him, because things are going pretty well between us, but surely this has something to do with sex?

I'm completely new to online dating, so this is completely new to me. I used to meet guys through socializing or friends, but that always ended in nothing. It was all fine and dandy, having some casual fun, but as soon as things got serious, they'd run away with their tails between their legs. I'm tired of that, so I'm trying it this way.

I love to dress naughty, both in my lingerie and in my clothes, and that often makes me a striking figure. I love that special attention. But I get the feeling that men keep their distance.

My name is Abbey, and I'm completely new to this. So I need to lose my virginity virtually, haha. I'm looking for a nice, athletic man who's mastered the art of safe sex. In short, I'm a fan of the well-known rubber. I'm single, so no need to bother climbing out of the window when my husband gets home, and I'm preferably looking for someone who is the same. I refuse to climb out of windows. I'm open to a relationship based on mutual respect and a good time in bed. Sex is just so important in a relationship, right? Do you recognize yourself in this? Then I hope to see your message soon.