Lovely milf wants sex

I'm just looking for a fun date—no fuss, just genuine commitment, discreetly, of course. Ideally, I'm looking for a man who, like me, is married.

I'll say it right away. I don't respond to messages that just say, "I want to fuck you." That's absolutely useless to me. I want to connect with a hot guy who has some class. By that, I mean real attention for me, not just for himself. I'm pretty dominant myself, so you have to be able to handle that!

Unfortunately, my partner doesn't want what I want. I love S&M and he doesn't. I can't live without it, so we have a little problem. So I'm going to do it secretly. Who can discreetly give me what I want?

My life has been a real rollercoaster these past few years. A few years ago, I was diagnosed with cancer. After intensive therapy, I overcame it. I still bear the scars, like my hair, which still needs to grow back properly. I'm looking for someone who sees beyond appearances and can deal with this.