Beautiful mother wants to have sex

I'm quite extravagant, and that's reflected in my dress. I'm not someone who lets myself be pigeonholed. That's also the case with sex, and I want to take the next step. I want to experience what soft SM is. So, I'm looking for a man who is already very skilled in it.

My boyfriend and I don't have exactly the same desires and expectations. I'm all for partner swapping, preferably with a mature man who has naughty fantasies. My boyfriend isn't interested in that, so I'm looking for a lover for myself.

Those beautiful brown eyes have me enchanted, my boyfriend said. I think the spell is slowly starting to wear off, because when I sit down on the couch with him and try to kiss him, he recoils. The first few times, I thought my breath smelled, but it doesn't. He just doesn't like that sticky stuff, he says.

I'm turned off by smokers/bad breath/morning moods/smelly feet/beards/beer bellies...