Excited mature wants to be fucked

I'm a bisexual woman currently in a relationship with a woman. I'm looking for a fun, pleasant guy who'd like to watch us get started with a double dildo and perhaps join in afterward.

In my relationship, where we give each other freedom, things are very natural. That's all I've said, because excitement and passion are nowhere to be found. Sometimes I even miss that listening ear with him, and I hope to find that here.

I'm quite the dominant type and I love being dominant during sex. I'd like to tie you up, whip you, and chop you and punish you if you protest. My husband isn't interested in any of this, so I'm looking for a very submissive slave to indulge in.

I'm a perfectly normal woman at first glance, but I do have substance. You have to take the time to get to know me, because I don't open up immediately. I mean this both literally and figuratively, and I'd love to find a nice man with a sense of humor and patience here.