Excited mature wants to be fucked

Just a little fling, that's what I'm looking for. I want to be seduced the old-fashioned way by a man who makes an effort. Butterflies in my stomach, nerves—you know how it is, right?

I'm not the type to just jump on top of someone; it has to be discreet and respectful. First, grab a bite to eat somewhere, and then enjoy each other's company between the sheets. P.S. My husband absolutely mustn't get wind of this.

Living as brother and sister, it wouldn't happen to me. Or so I thought. But it did. We don't do it anymore, except maybe once when it really bothers us, but you know how that feels... I don't know yet whether I'll stay with him, but I'm definitely not going through life without sex anymore. I think I'll find a solution for that. Are you my solution?

My relationship isn't working, not even close to it. I'm being belittled and kept on a tight leash, and I'm really fed up with it. I'm looking for a man who can give me some good nights out so I don't always have to feel so bad. He says I'm not getting sex because I'm dirty. Do you agree?