Lovely mother wants a man

I'm already in a relationship, but I'm looking for something different. We don't live with someone, but we're in a long-distance relationship. There's just something missing in this relationship. I don't feel sexy around him anymore. And I think that's how it should be.

I never thought my boyfriend would sleep with someone else. I found out through word of mouth, and I already thought it was strange that I'd seen so little of him these past few months. It was high time I found a man who'd consider me his girlfriend.

No white boys, I'm into men of color and men who are well-endowed.

Which man is open to a sexual relationship that could lead to a permanent relationship? It's not a must, but I'm thinking about it more and more, and I think it's about time. First, we could just start dating to get to know each other better, including sex, because I think that also needs to be a good fit. And I really enjoy good sex; I can go on for hours, but in a pleasant way. Then we'll get to know each other even better and know soon enough if we click.