Experienced mature wants to date a man

Sitting home every night glued to the TV isn't for me. Unlike my boyfriend, who flips from channel to channel. The man I'm looking for is adventurous and enjoys getting out and about.

My girlfriend and I got into a heated argument after a few drinks. I told her my boyfriend isn't very creative in bed and that I always had to fake it. "Find a sex buddy who can make you cum," was her only comment. "Good idea, though, and what I want is a fantastic date where you can make me cum." Deep down, I'm worried it might be my fault. I can find out when we get into bed together.

I'm in an open relationship and would like to experiment with BDSM, either with or without my husband. I don't have much experience yet, but there's plenty to learn, and I'm very curious about what's out there. There are few boundaries or taboos. Multiple men are definitely possible.

I can't seem to get my boyfriend to understand that I feel lonely when he only visits once every two weeks. That doesn't constitute a relationship for me, and I want to break up as soon as possible. I do hope to find a man who will be there for me soon.