Experienced mother wants a guy

Okay, maybe this is the height of idiocy, but I don't dare go into the sauna naked. I don't know what people will think.

My husband is sweet, that's not the problem, but I'm lacking a lot right now!

The word "female-friendly" is unfortunately not in my partner's vocabulary. He's quite dominant, but that's unfortunately quite common in our culture. And I quite enjoy getting laid whenever he's in the mood, but I'd also like to be treated like a queen between the sheets. My partner will never do that, but maybe another man would?

A little slip-up every now and then is always nice and now I have the opportunity to achieve that in my work, which often requires me to drive all over the country.