Experienced mature wants to date a man

I'm covered in tattoos and piercings, but I'm a sweetheart through and through. Not nearly as badass as the pictures, so please don't let that scare you off. My boyfriend and I are looking for a couple (or my boyfriend might just want to watch) to share some things. We need to keep things interesting in a relationship, and we found this to be a fun and satisfying way.

Why do men look at me so strangely because I'm special and sometimes even a bit ghetto? This isn't all, because I'm not here to talk about my appearance. I want to be handled roughly with toys, especially toys that can hurt me a bit.

nice woman looking for a nice man to spend some nice hours in bed together

Looks aren't so important to me because I've already messed up on that front. I want someone who's understanding and with whom I can have fun in time.